May 10, 2011


I just read that Former California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife Maria Shriver are separating. It saddens me that after their 25 years of being married, they are finally trying a life outside each other.

This brings me to a more personal thought about my friend, who's in the brink of separation from her husband. She has been married for 8 years now, with a kid. She is having an affair with her husband's friend. The other guy is also married with a kid too. My friend told me, she thinks that the other guy is her soulmate. She then asked me what do you think? I didn't have a clear answer to her. Although I read a lot of books about soulmates in the past, I was not able to give her a definitive theory about soulmates. I'm no expert in this matter, but for purposes of discussion, I gave her insights about this topic: Feel free to read, if you're still wandering and wondering where your soulmate is...

Soulmate: Definition

- A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, or compatibility.

-It is your innerself bonding with the spiritual insides of another. The bond is invisible, yet it lies deep within you and cannot be mistaken. It is that strong pull you feel towards another.

-some one you have a very deep connection. It is not always easy explained. It is a meeting of mind, heart, body and soul on the highest of levels. Communication is at its easiest, as they understand you perfectly, and accept you completely with no judgments.

You have to remember that even though your soul mate might cross your path at some point in time, there may be circumstances which will prevent the union from happening (e.g. one is married to another person) but when the time is right and everything falls into place, it will happen. Other soulmates will meet in the next life because they are still looking for their own self-fulfillment before they could be finally be available for each other. Patience is a virtue and when the signs all point to go, nothing can be more fulfilling than the soul mate relationship.

Some books would say that your soulmate does not necessarily have to be your spouse. It can be your friend, a co-worker, your teacher or your sibling. One thing is for sure, you always feel this person with you no matter where you are! It is greater than an earthly love! It is one soul two bodies! Treasure if you are even lucky enough to meet this person, your other half! Enjoy the things shared, do not get stuck on trying to define what you are, though you may never never have a true chance of being together in a long lasting committed relationship! You may always love, admire and carry each other in your souls!


  1. aw grabe tagal ng pinag samahan saka pa b nagsawa? ung mga ganyan d ako naniniwala n nahanap ang soulmate or d nag work out! susme sa 25 yrs d nag work out? or ung kilala mo n 8 yrs? I dunno, nde ko dn sure kasi ayw ko magsalita ng tpos pero d lang ako makapaniwala...:P ang gulo ko basta!

  2. Hi Jes, naguluhan nga ako sa comment! Some things talaga are hard to explain. Thanks for always visiting here.

  3. ang wika nga ni papa jack hindi lahat ng nagsasama ay nagmamahalan at hindi lahat ng nagmamahalan ay magkasama,yan ang magic ng love!!!


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